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Thursday, June 24, 2010

Increased Confidence, Career dashed


By : DSY

Success belongs to everyone. This philosophy has been proven by people who managed to turn his life from nothing into something. There are no obstacles that could prevent a person achieve success if attempted with a vengeance. However, if everyone can be successful, why are there people who always thought he deserved to fail and not succeed even before he tried to succeed?

It all started from the paradigm of self. Successful people have a high confidence for success. The higher the trust himself, he is also getting closer to its achievement. This is the less people have always felt a failure. Low self-esteem, fear of failure, and a host of other negative attitude was the one who actually pulled the failure.

To become a successful professional with a brilliant career, confidence is one of the characters to be possessed. Self-confidence makes you not hesitate to mobilize all the skills, abilities and dedication to be able to contribute significantly to the company. In the end it will strengthen your career and promotion will from on-the-way.

Seeing the importance of confidence in career and work, here are some tips that you can increase your confidence in the world of work:

Stop degrading yourself. People will judge you the same way you judge yourself. If you consider yourself incompetent, then you have to condition your mind and body to see you as someone who is incompetent. Stop giving negative suggestions in your mind. Apply 'I can do when the boss it'attitude entrust a project in your hands. Stop sabotaging yourself from the opportunity to excel just because you feel you will fail.

Nobody's perfect stop mourn weaknesses / faults you, anyway, not you alone who have it. Is not there a saying 'To do is human error'? Make mistakes on the job does not mean you have failed, it was an opportunity to continue to improve themselves and keep learning. Make a list of weaknesses and strengths and then focus on your strengths and how to transform your weaknesses into your strengths. Remember, success is achieved not by removing the weaknesses but to sharpen the excess.

Mingling with the people Stay optimistic and supportive colleagues who like complaining, pessimistic and often say negative. Befriend people who always say positive, passionate, visionary and could see the potential in each person. Let them spread the positivity in their lives to you. If you often find your self-confidence and disturbed by the cynical comments dropped from colleagues, then rest assured that they have a crisis of confidence as well. Said negative or-jelakkan menjelak others is how they vent their feeling less confident.

Accept compliments, you deserve it! Dispose of the word 'coincidence' in your dictionary. If a boss or co-workers praise your work, it's because you deserve it. Receiving praise and thanksgiving? Thank you? not a form of arrogance, but self-esteem. Rarely receive positive rewards for the hard work you do can undermine confidence, and therefore made the slightest praise as generating enthusiasm. Do not forget to give a gift to yourself if you managed to reach the target.

Enhance the ability of self. When you feel confident? When you managed to do something which was seen as being possible? Then increase your ability to continue to learn and practice so that you increase your competence. Feeling insecure because 'only' graduates whereas S1 S2 colleague overseas graduates? No need to feel discouraged, because of performance and achievement is important for the company. If being the best makes you feel confident, so be it!

Self-confidence can lead people to success. Starting from the self-esteem, they were able to see the great potential possessed and then adding to it. Remember, you are entitled to succeed, so one is preventing you from success is yourself. Believe in yourself!


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